Where I come from that just ain't right...

Here at IHOP things happen fast. People fall in love quickly, they get married quickly and they have children quickly. However, this is not the case for everyone. I get asked if I am pregnant probably a minimum of twice a week. My parents have never even brought it up, Jesse's parents have never asked, every stand up comedian on the continent knows that this question is not one that should ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever didn't have enough evers memorized be asked. So, today my question is why do people here find it totally okay to ask?

Things to ponder:
-I've lost a little weight over the last few months and I'm really starting to feel good about and in my body, when someone asks me if I'm pregnant the first thing it does is shatter my self-confidence.
-It's a really REALLY personal thing, when it happens, we'll tell you.
-We're not ready. We're waiting, this concept seems foreign to some, but it's just the truth, we are. There is nothing wrong, we do want kids someday, but that day is very very far away.

So the next time that your inspired to ask a newly married person if they are pregnant try to reflect on what you would want if it was you or your wife. We do allot of things without thinking about how they make others feel to satisfy our own curiousities but I'm telling you, it doesn't do good things for the people your asking.

Good night, and good luck.